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69@69 by Jacqueline T May Online dating experiences of a mature woman

Follow Jay's hilarious online dating notes as she encounters scammers, predators, ghosting, sex fetishes, catfishing, charmer

69@69 : by Jacqueline T May

INTRODUCTION 69@69

69@69”

Will you swipe right on “69@69?” It’s a tale of love, laughter, grit, tears and the unexpected joys of late-life sex and romance of a mature widow.

Should I find a new man?

After the loss of my beloved husband, widowed and grieving for three years, I'm ready to embark on a new journey—one that involves more than volunteering and crossword puzzles. How hard can it be to find someone who will be my soul mate, best friend, travel partner, maybe life partner in their mid- 60’s

Swipe Right!

You could say I am a pretty impulsive-spirited woman. It is typical of me that I jumped head-first into the world of online dating. Why? After 42 years in a cosy relationship bubble, and finding myself a widow, grieving for three years, I yearned for companionship and adventure. So, with sheer determination, a smartphone, and a dash of humour, I set sail on the digital sea of matchmaking. I had lots to learn.

I didn’t expect to face scammers, charmers, catfishing, friends with benefits and obsessive suitors; many tested my resilience. Along the way, I discovered not to take everything at face value and searched for authenticity, finding the true meaning of companionship.

A Rollercoaster Ride of Laughter

I encounter so many crazy scenarios—from awkward first dates (toothpaste and fish and chips) to unexpected connections and unfathomable obsessions (Toes, a schoolgirl uniform, and motorbikes); backbreaking sex with several teddy bears staring at me; and the Lord of the Manor, who nearly made my dog sick with his home-fried liver.

Heartache and tears

There are moments of vulnerability, too. I grapple with heartache, loss and deceptions, yet I (sometimes foolishly) continue to bounce back, determined to find joy amidst the swipes and emojis. I am dealing with online stalking, sex text bombardment and catfishing. My four-year saga of chasing an uncommitted Toy Boy who struggled to leave me alone and only wanted ’Friends With Benefits’.

Wine, Laughter, and Solidarity

My loyal Girl Tribe, my precious mates, are always here to listen to my stories and woes, sip wine, laugh, and cheer me on. Even if they take the Micky out of my disastrous naïve decisions, I value their input and derision, which usually involves a few appropriate swear words.

Poetry

Some of my dates inspired me to write poetry. These short verses, range from humorous, anger and sadness.

Why 69@69?

Why did I choose the title 69@69? Well, I celebrated my 69th date in my 69th year. After reflecting on my life’s wild ride with my Girl Tribe, I decided to write about my memorable encounters, throwing in some wisdom, humour, and unapologetic candour. And yes, the sexual innuendo of “69” isn’t lost on them, nor the sexual experiences I encountered on my way.

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INTRODUCTION 69@69

Biography of a mature widow in her 60s

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69@69 by Jacqueline T May Online dating experiences of a mature woman